Happy Valentine’s Day from Moment

Whether you believe that Jews should celebrate Valentine’s Day in February or Tu B’Av in August, there is no question that love, both romantic and platonic, is important in our culture and history. Jewish people continue to connect and to love under the best, and worst, of circumstances.

Ask the Rabbis | What Does Judaism Say About Love?

Love is the gravity that pulls the universe together.

The Jewish expression of love is a triangle: love of self, love of another and love of God.

Read these and other commentaries about the meaning of love in Moment’s flagship column, “Ask the Rabbis,” where rabbis across the denominations discuss age-old questions.

Great Love Stories from the Holocaust

It is easy to find love in a beautiful place. But to find love in the shadow of death is most remarkable. The young Jews who, caught in the Holocaust, held onto life in ghettos, forests, transit camps, slave labor camps and death camps were indeed remarkable. Combining love with mourning, they began to rebuild their lives. Love was a gateway to the future: new lives, new lands, new homes and children.

Why tell these stories now? Each love story—mysterious, deep and forged in pain—has something to teach us. Read these inspiring Holocaust stories of love, courage, grace and spirit here.

The Secret History of X & O

What are the origins and evolutions of these ubiquitous symbols of love and affection?
Hugs and kisses? Or crosses and christos? Uncover the secret meanings of xoxo here.

Beshert

Beshert—Destiny and the Jewish Soulmate

What is “beshert?” Where does the word come from, and what does it mean? The term beshert is most often used to designate a soulmate: the one person whom an individual is divinely destined to marry. How does the idea of beshert—or destiny—fit within Jewish philosophy? Explore the meaning of history of the term beshert in the Moment‘s feature “Jewish Word” column.

We’re Asking!

“We were beshert.” Is that your answer when someone asks you to tell them your love story? Maybe it was a chance meeting. Maybe you conquered specific challenges to stay together. Do you have advice to other couples based on your experience? Is there a special place that’s forever “yours?” Does it relate to a Jewish holiday? Beshert can be for pets, friends, any special relationship that feels like it was meant to be.

Moment’s feature, Beshert, wants to share your story. If you feel your love was beshert—“meant to be”—we’d love to hear about it. As a special thank you, submitters of stories chosen for Moment‘s Beshert column will receive a one-year Premium Membership.

Click here for submissions guidelines.

Below is a special selection of our Beshert stories. We hope you enjoy and find meaning and inspiration in them on Valentine’s Day and every day.

Beshert | “Apartners”—After He Buffed the Scratch on Her Car

Kenny and I knew each other for years. I’m a singer, he’s a drummer. In the club date biz, you

Beshert | Hello, Columbus

When I graduated from Brooklyn College and the Jewish Theological Seminary of America in 1960, a Jewish philanthropist named Sam

Beshert | All the Light We Cannot See

It’s been a tough week, generally speaking, to present the idea of beshert as a positive “meant-to-be” experience. Snow. Ice.

Beshert | Boulders and Olive Trees

It is a few months before I meet my beshert. I dream. My child’s father has gotten into my apartment.

Beshert | Sitting in the Nosebleed Section

It was February 1, 1993. I had just finished shooting a video in Israel for a corporate client. I was an

Beshert | A Pandemic Pup with a Name of Her Own

We called her Toots, for about a day. And then I could not look at our wild-haired, chipmunk-size puppy and

Beshert | The Meant-To-Be Coffee Pot

Judi Connery admired her mother’s classic coffee pot painting. In the midst of a pandemic, when she needed it most, the coffee pot found her.

Beshert | When Cats Fly

“Your cat is in business class.” Startled, I looked up from my magazine and regarded the flight attendant. She couldn’t

Beshert | Six Degrees of Aunt Beck

As editor of my college newspaper, the Oberlin Review, part of my job was to ensure that capable underclassmen were

Beshert | Inching Out of a Pandemic

It’s that time of year in Texas when walking down the sidewalk or over a knot of roots or down